Discrimination to men in dating..why is this happening? How can we at least make it fair?

Discrimination to men happens everywhere look at art for example, we have billions of pictures of naked, women in ual poses or doing ual things but if their is one of man with his clothes on with an then its considered lewd and categorized with . In the same way men are depicted in media as lazy, disrespectful, promiscuous and ofter slaves to the will of women (look at any sitcom in the last 40 years for this one) Its really since the rise of feminism and ism that this has become so prominent, because people say that the world before belonged to men so now it should belong to women so rather than seek equality women (some) don't me troll pls)want women to replace men in the traditional role, Really its just effect brought upon by men who are too stupid and loud for their own good and women who are too smart.